WHY IMAGE MATTERS?

H.I.P. Comic Strip, November 20, 2013 on GoComics.com

How do people know that we area positive or a negative person? We are not being graded like eggs or meat. How do people differentiate a positive person from a negative person? There are many ways. But the most visible way is from one's attitude and facial expression.  Look at all the pictures posted here. Success begins with our inner-self, which is called ATTITUDE. A positive person reflects the warmth and positive expression. A negative person is similar to the eclipse of the moon. It tries to shine the light in the darkness, but the inner energy is missing for the light to be bright enough to reflect light on others. So, which one are you, my friends? 

Scenario 1: Another idiom  similar to this Camel's attitude ,"Pot says Kettle black"... Scenario 2:   Scenario 3:  This is a person who doesn't judge others negatively. Scenario 4:  Yes, the only way to know our own self is to  'get LOST' and get to know ourselves better by having Self Awareness. Scenario : 5 Self Awareness is the root of success in whatever we do! Scenario 6: My dear friends, have you opened up your mind and being aware of your own Self Awareness? Which Scenario are you at?

Australians march peacefully today to show their support.  "Violence Against Women". Men usually abuse the women they love. Instead of the women they hate. Do these men think that abusing women they love is a requirement in proving their love? Or are they having mental sickness which has been embedded since childhood? Ladies when you are living with a life partner who is abusive, do not be ashamed to come forward and get help...Most men who are abusive at home, are charming with their public image, so much so no one believes that he is abusive at home.In some cases, people think that the abused women simply create stories.This is the reason women need to be confident to come forward and get professional help...

Camisoles oh Camisoles... Most women and girls would like to think that they are 'classy'. 'Classy' does not mean that one belongs to a certain class in the society they live in. 'Classiness' does not recognise the social status or educational background. What it reflects is a person who has tasteful aesthetic taste with sound knowledge in the Art of Dressing.It is not about the brand or price of the clothe, it is about knowing the Art of Dressing. Yes, it is an ART ladies/girls! Anyone who wears camisoles as their upper clothing is not considered 'classy' at all. Regardless what brand or how expensive is the camisole. Camisole is an undergarment dear ladies/girls! So, do not get confused between undergarment and upper garment. Upper garment is the shirt and blouse... <Camisoles are undergarments...>

Wisdom from Women... who Made Things Happen Movie : Throughout history there have been incredible women who have lead us, inspired us and encouraged us to do the right thing. The woman in this short movie all have one thing in common; rather than taking the road well traveled... they decided to blaze their own trail!

Hello again! This is a continuation on how to recognise our own self? Before you are able to choose what type of clothes make you look good, you have to understand your own body shape. What you need is a long mirror... Warning here ! Look at your self in the mirror objectively. Accept what the mirror tells and shows you. Ask the mirror: "Mirror on the wall, tell me what body type do I have?". When the mirror says "You are a pear,a box, an apple, hour glass etc.". Look at yourself closely and understand it. Find what kind of clothes make your body looks good. The mirror never lies. Back to understanding your body shape... Find the most comfortable style that makes you feel comfortable when you are at work or at functions. Check and double check on the style and the comfort. Comfort means that you don't have to hop like a kangaroo when you walk because the clothe is too tight. You don't have to keep on pressing your thigh while sitting down, simply your...

Each day more and more women and young girls are confused in their dress code to working place.   Some women think that what they wear is their business. Little do they realise that they are supposed to be the assets of the organisation where they work. It is the organisation's responsibility to educate them in dressing up like professionals. Look at the cartoon below, which one are you?   1. A fresh graduate who thinks that it is cool to wear sneakers with her suit to work. 2.A proud woman who thinks that she knows all about fashion. She is confused between a smart office wear or going to luncheon with friends. 2. A very fashion conscious woman but with the taste from old school. Stylish but dated! She matches all colours from head to toe and handbag too. 4. A lady with sexy alluring taste. Going to work with cleavage. Lady in red. 4-Types of Inappropriate Working Clothes  

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Persevere Movie : In my many years of business and life, I realize that there are quite a few things that separate the good from the great. But, if you asked me to pick only one reason why some are more successful than others, I would offer you this...your willingness to PERSEVERE. Have you ever wondered WHY some are more successful than others?

Seven Wonders of the World Movie : It's so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle today that we naturally begin to take some of life's most beautiful gifts for granted. I love watching this story unfold through the eyes of a child. It's a reminder that our most priceless possessions were given to us free at birth. Do remember that our most priceless possessions were given to us free at birth. Appreciate them!

Common Sleep Problems and Solutions This is a good article. Read it!

Oil For Your Lamp Movie : Mother Teresa said, "To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it." Most women are so busy filling the lamps of the people they love that they let their own lamps run low. Here is a little movie to remind all women to fill their lamp... Light up your lamp ladies!

Manners begin at home Are you aware that Manners and all habits begin at home?

Even Eagles Need a Push Movie : We've all seen it, or felt it, at some point in our life; how just one moment of encouragement can change a life forever. It can be the greatest gift you'll ever give...or receive.

Excessive Alcohol Use When You’re Young Could Have Lasting Impacts on Your Brain Teens alcoholism is rampant globally...The age of of 'damaged' teens get younger and younger each day.  The root of the problem is indirectly caused by some parents who are irresponsible for allowing their adolescents to have private party at home and alcohol is allowed to be served at home.But, of course these parents are usually drinkers too!! Their reasoning is that it is all right to do it at home, so that police would not arrest the adolescents who are under age...  What kind of parents/adults are they? They are supposed to be the role models and moulders of their society to guide their children/the younger generation to grow into healthy adults mind,body and soul. Can you imagine when these adolescents grow up, they lead the world or organisations with brain which is damaged and not sober? We need to look at life in a monumental picture my friends!  Let's do something about...

"Grandpa Joe's Final Words" video reminds NN of her younger days when she was at school. Some teachers loved to belittle their pupils at school. One teacher said to NN's classmate that she was hopeless and good for nothing. This girl has grown up into a successful lady who is well known and celebrated by the society. Where is the teacher now? Remained as an old retired teacher. The girl vowed to the teacher, "You say I am good at nothing and hopeless? You will see one day when you become an old woman, I will become a famous person". This was exactly what she did! Teachers and parents have to be careful with what they say to the younger people. Most of the time a person's self-esteem is destroyed by their parents and teachers belittling and discouraging words. They do not realise that their words uttered when they are angry can affect their pupils',students' or children's self-esteem. Parents and teachers are supposed to be leaders ...

Acres of Diamonds Movie : Right now we all live in a time of infinite abundance and a wealth of possibility. Each of us is right in the middle of our own "Acre of Diamonds", if only we would realize it and develop the ground we are standing on before charging off in search of greener pastures. Hello again everyone! It has been a long time since NN wrote on this page. She has been trotting globally.. Wishing all of you a good,healthy and meaningful 2013!  Global economy doesn't seem good at the moment. Most people are looking for greener pasture... Do watch this video prior finalising with your decision of moving out of the place where you are at... Wishing you all the best in whatever you do in 2013! Sincerely, NN